Avoid from 5 things if you want to be a successful personShoaib Rasheed
Don’t blame others for your failures:
“A man can fail many times, but he isn’t a failure until he begins to blame somebody else.”
In short, you can say don’t try to escape from bitter realities of your life. It’s not a shame that you got failed. Your failure is a proof that at least you have tried. You have to except your mistakes. Then you need to learn from these mistakes. In this way you can improve yourself. There are many examples in this world, which can guide you. Steve jobs, Muhammad Ali and other successful people got failed in their first try. But after so many failures they got successful. Michael Jordan said” “I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” After this quote, I’m sure failure is no more an embarrassment for anyone. Therefore, blaming others will make you a fail person. That is a real embarrassment.
Don’t waste your time:
Time is very important blessing of nature. The person who does not care about it will get destroyed. We are living in the era where children’s are getting rich(10 Richest kids ). . Under these circumstances you cannot waste a single second. Here I have a formula to save your time. Make this schedule in your mind that your one second is equal to one minute, one minute equal to one hour and one hour is same as your one day. By this way you can feel importance of time. You can buy everything in your life but not time. Therefore stop wasting your time. It can help you to make your life a standard life. And you will be successful one day. Therefore make your every single second more valuable because it is.
Don’t ignore yourself:
There is a majority of people who follows the world given by others. They haven’t their own ideas. I have studied a book where named “Fire brigade” written by a nun. She did duty in the ICU room for forty years. She decided to take interview of every person came there. She has a habit of asking same question “What is the regret of your life?” And the answer was “I never ever tried to find out myself”. That was the most common answer. You did whatever other wants. Now at the end of your life you will be in stress. Therefore always try to find out what is your wish. Don’t ignore yourself.
Don’t look at shortcuts:
This is the most common mistake a person can make in the 21st century. Everyone in this World wants fast growth in very short time. I’m telling you that if you’re one of them, then please leave it. Otherwise soon you will not be able to stand on your own for entire life. Because it hurts a lot, after that you may not be able to stand again. In this game unconsciously you will waste your time and all your efforts. At the end of the day you will be a person with nothing in hands. Shortcuts can only give you temporary success and then regrets for remaining life. You have to adopt a proper and regular way to your success. May it take little time and no doubt hurdles will come in your way initially, but after few proper steps it will lead you to a real and permanent success. Therefore avoid from shortcuts.
Think about success not money:
By earning sufficient money you will not become a successful person. Money is not a scale to measure your success. Success is always long lasting, while money is not. You will be remembered for the change you made in your society. I want to mention Steve Jobs quote here” “Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn’t matter to me. Going to bed at night saying we’ve done something wonderful, that what matters to me.” Yes, that’s what matter, because this will make you prominent. Your internal satisfaction is another type of success. All these steps can make you a better and strong person. Another beautiful I really want to mention here
“Success isn’t about how much money you make, it’s about the difference you make in people’s life.”
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